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Skills can be learned.

Skills can be practiced.

Skills can change lives.

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Every offering begins with the same belief: healthy relationships aren't built naturally, by avoiding mistakes, or with information alone. They're built by learning skills. However you like to learn — big room, small group, or just you — there's a way to do this together.

My core focus is consent, comprehensive sex education, and survivor support plus kink-aware, power-conscious relationship education for people building trust and intimacy outside the mainstream script.

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Workshops & Events

Popular workshops for organizations:

Consent Isn’t a Checkbox
Learn how to ask, listen, check in, respond to uncertainty, and practice consent as an ongoing part of everyday interactions.

Interactive, experiential sessions where people practice the skill, not just hear about it.

Looking for something more personal? Private events are relaxed, interactive, and built around the things your group is genuinely curious about. Choose a topic, combine a few, or tell me about your group and I’ll create something just for you.

How to Support a Survivor
Practical, trauma-informed skills for responding to a disclosure, offering meaningful support, avoiding common missteps, and preserving a survivor’s agency.

Adult Sex Ed: What You Actually Wanted to Know
An interactive refresher on bodies, pleasure, communication, sexual health, consent, and the questions traditional sex education tends to leave unanswered.

Talking About Sex Is a Skill
Practice communicating wants, boundaries, preferences, questions, and differences without relying on mind-reading.

Popular workshops for private events:

I work with universities, student groups, nonprofits, and community organizations to create workshops built around real conversation, practical exercises, and the questions people don’t always get the chance to ask out loud.

Because hearing “communication is important” is easy. Knowing what to say when the conversation gets hard is a skill.

My work centers on consent and comprehensive sexuality education, gender-based violence prevention, survivor support, and allyship with a kink-aware, power-conscious approach to relationships, trust, intimacy, and the dynamics that shape them.

Pleasure-Based Anatomy
A shame-free tour of anatomy that puts pleasure, variation, and understanding your own body at the center.

BDSM 101
A friendly introduction to kink and BDSM: what it is (and isn’t), common terminology, communication, boundaries, negotiation, consent, and the role of trust and power.

How to Talk About What You Want
Build the vocabulary and confidence to communicate desire, preferences, boundaries, and curiosity with a partner.

Pleasure, Desire & the Things We Never Learned
An approachable conversation about how pleasure and desire actually work and why there’s much more variation than we’re usually taught.

Ask a Sex Educator
Bring the questions you’ve wondered about, whispered to your friends, or been too nervous to Google. Anonymous questions encouraged.

Speaking

Invited talks, keynotes, and panel appearances for universities, student organizations, conferences, and community groups. Bringing together research, lived experience, and practical education to create thoughtful conversations that make complex and oftentimes difficult subjects easier to understand, discuss, and act on.

Ideas worth talking about. Insights worth taking with you.

Each talk is designed to do more than fill a time slot. It should challenge assumptions, spark better conversations, and leave your audience with something they can actually use.

Talks can be tailored to your audience, event, or campus. Popular topics include:

Consent Culture Starts Here
Consent is more than a rule for sexual encounters. This talk explores what changes when we understand consent as an everyday practice and the role communication, boundaries, power, and respect play in creating cultures where consent can actually thrive.

From Prevention to Pleasure: Rethinking Sexuality Education
What happens when sex education asks more than “How do we prevent bad outcomes?” This talk explores what becomes possible when education also makes room for agency, pleasure, communication, identity, and healthy relationships.

What We Can Learn From Relationships Outside the Script
An exploration of what more intentionally negotiated relationships can teach us about communication, boundaries, expectations, power, trust, and consent—lessons that are useful far beyond any one kind of relationship.

Beyond Awareness: What Violence Prevention Actually Requires
Knowing gender-based violence exists is not the same as knowing how to prevent it. This talk moves from awareness to the individual skills, community norms, and institutional practices that can help interrupt violence before it happens.

Beyond the Survivor Story
Survivor stories can create awareness. This talk asks what we do with that awareness, connecting lived experience with practical lessons in survivor support, consent, and violence prevention.

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1:1 Coaching & Education

  • Relationship transitions, from opening a relationship to ending one or starting to date again.

  • Identity and relationship structures outside the traditional script.

  • Or simply the question you haven’t known who else to ask.

Personal, confidential guidance for individuals and couples who want space to ask questions, build skills, and understand themselves or their relationships more deeply.

Tutoring for the conversations no one taught you how to have.

Sessions are shaped around what you’re actually working through: communication, intimacy, boundaries, desire, relationship dynamics, a curiosity you’ve never had a safe place to bring or shame that’s been sitting there for a while.

No judgment. No rush. No more resorting to Googling things in an incognito tab.

People come to sessions to explore:

  • Communication, conflict, and recurring patterns in relationships.

  • Desire, pleasure, body image, and shame.

  • Kink, fantasy, and “spicier” curiosities—without the shame spiral.

  • Setting and holding boundaries in dating, relationships, or family.

COLLABORATE

Open to Collaboration

Have an idea that doesn’t fit neatly into a box? Let’s build it together.

Some of the best work starts with a conversation.

I’m always open to collaborating with educators, advocates, organizations, researchers, creators, and communities who want to help people build real skills around relationships, sexuality, consent, communication, and care.

That might look like developing a new workshop or curriculum, contributing to a program or resource, consulting on educational content, joining a panel or project, or creating something neither of us has thought of yet.

If your work overlaps with mine, and you think we could make something thoughtful, useful, and genuinely engaging together, I’d love to hear what you’re imagining.

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